You don't need to leave your partner to get the connection back.

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The secret to avoid separation, without needing to air dirty laundry! What does it costing you when you live in a struggling relationship?

State of your relationship

What is the status of your relationship? Here’s a quick quiz to find out. It’s fun, it’s free and it’s amazingly accurate…Over 2,150 people have done it already.

Relationship Essentials

This 8-week-course is your personal support program to help you improve your relationships significantly.

About Jürgen Schmechel

I am a keen observer of human psychology, and a master in NLP(Neuro Linguistic Programming), Ericksonian Hypnosis and am a certified Results Coach. I love numbers and and am known for my strong logical, analytical and numerical abilities. For years I have used these skills to serve exceptional good workflow models in business, but now, have discovered how my skills can be used to create the foundations of long, loving relationships.

Recent Blog

How do I know if he really loves me?

In my online quiz “Find out: Your Relationship Performance Indicator” I have now collected over 2,150 responses. Over 80% of these are from women and I am sorry to say that I have lost count of how often their question is “Does he love me?”
In her great song, Cher believes the answer is easy – ”it’s in his kiss!”
And we all know the saying that “you need to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince” – which is a  common saying in Germany and France.

So why are so many women feeling that they’ve been left in the dark?
What are we men doing to not communicate that we love our partner?

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Drifting Apart Podcast

Many couples report that over time they’ve been drifting apart.

The early cracks are getting wider and wider and eventually the chasm isn’t bridgeable any more.
What happened?

In his regular podcast “Conversations on Purpose” Justin Cooper is interviewing me and we are exploring the early warning signs every couple should be aware of.

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How do I help people by inspiring their relationship?

Many people approach me to find help or support with their relationships, often at a time when their relationship has already taken a turn for the worse.
They are sometimes unhappy about their partner’s behaviour; others sometimes compare their relationship now with what it was three or five years ago and are left feeling disappointed.
Other times, I speak to people who just can’t put their finger on the problem, but see that their connection to their partner is broken or lost.
I hear a lot of clients say that the conversations they have with their partner seem to end in the same argument over and over. Intimacy and sex are happening less and less.
Some people admit to not looking forward to coming home to spend time with their partner. They’d rather stay at work or go the gym instead.

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“I thoroughly enjoyed this workshop and wished my husband was able to attend too. Some very simple yet often overlooked ideas and heeps of prompts and tips to improve and enhance a relationship. It was direct, honest and enlightening – left feeling uplifted, inspired and determined to do better!”

Susie C, Seaforth

Why Money Is More Important Than Sex

“I have just finished reading this book. It is beautifully designed and a very easy read, full of great tips on how to get the best out of your relationship. This would make a great gift for newly engaged or married couples so they can avoid all the things that lead to relationship breakdown.” Liz Koh, Moneymax, NZ

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