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About Jürgen Schmechel

I am a keen observer of human psychology, and a master in NLP(Neuro Linguistic Programming), Ericksonian Hypnosis and am a certified Results Coach. I love numbers and and am known for my strong logical, analytical and numerical abilities. For years I have used these skills to serve exceptional good workflow models in business, but now, have discovered how my skills can be used to create the foundations of long, loving relationships.

Recent Blog

Loneliness

Being lonely or feeling lonely is a new epidemic in our society.

In spite of all the connections we make online, in spite of all the social media interactions we have and in spite of having a communication tool in our hands 24/7 we, as a society, are feeling lonelier than ever before.

We touched on this subject in one of my recent blogs: “perception is reality”.

There, we discussed how our personal awareness makes it clear that there really is no difference between actually being lonely is reality, or simply ‘feeling’ lonely.

A lot of people come to me and report that they are feeling lonely in their relationship, which might have been a problem for the majority of their partnership.

How can that be?

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How do you not let your children become a problem in your relationship?

Now, seven years after the wedding and honeymoon you sit with two children age 6 and 3 and pregnant with the third. But despite having everything you supposedly should want, you have the distinct, undeniable feeling that something is missing – big time.

It seems like having children has somehow moved you further apart from each other instead of closer together. How can this be? He is a good father and does his share at home. And yet still, you both feel the loss of something important in your relationship.

So how do you not let your children become a problem in your relationship?

Children are the greatest source of joy and the greatest source of trouble for any relationship.

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How do you know when it’s over?

Every now and then I receive this very question from one of the participants in my online quiz. “How do I know it is over?” or “When is it time to leave?”

When I then look at the time they have been with their partner, more often than not I find they have together for more than 15 years.

In other words, they know their partners very well, they know themselves well – you’d assume. Still they are living in a relationship which must be so unfulfilling that they think of leaving but are not quite sure.

And the difficulty here is, that the answer is not clear cut at all.

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Why Money Is More Important Than Sex

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