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“I have just finished reading this book. It is beautifully designed and a very easy read, full of great tips on how to get the best out of your relationship. This would make a great gift for newly engaged or married couples so they can avoid all the things that lead to relationship breakdown.” Liz Koh, Moneymax, NZ

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About Jürgen Schmechel

I am a keen observer of human psychology, and a master in NLP(Neuro Linguistic Programming), Ericksonian Hypnosis and am a certified Results Coach. I love numbers and and am known for my strong logical, analytical and numerical abilities. For years I have used these skills to serve exceptional good workflow models in business, but now, have discovered how my skills can be used to create the foundations of long, loving relationships.

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Why money is more important

I would like you to imagine three days without sex and now three days without money. Which one is harder to imagine? Which one is harder to do? Sure, we all want sex. Some of us, as often as possible, some of us on a regular basis, some of us every now and then – but we all want it to some extent. Living without sex for months on end may not be ideal, but it is possible. No one has ever died from lack of sex. Money though? Living without money for even a month is practically impossible, especially if living in one of the twenty top industrial nations. Please do not forget that living together is also an economical decision.

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His unforgettable smile

It started all so well – back then – ten or fifteen years ago. You met at a gym. It was a total chance encounter. If it wasn’t for your friend’s party the night before, you would never have gone to the later session at the gym. But you did. And there he was, smiling at you, smiling with you. You felt electric that morning and the exercises were not so hard. You remember it so well it was a Friday in March 2006. The week after you made sure to go to the later session again. And he was there again. The same shy smile, the same clear blue eyes looking at you. Again, you felt electric that morning.

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Closed Book

It is not uncommon to hear women who participate in my online coaching program talk about their men and report “my husband is a closed book to me, I don’t know nor understand what is going on in his mind…”. I’ve often heard confessions of finding this trait intriguing in the beginning of the relationship; he was the big mystery she had set out to solve. But for some reason she couldn’t get through to him, or he didn’t let her in. What started as being intriguing soon became concerning. How could you live with someone who does not open up, who does not share their thoughts and feeling and who does not talk?

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“I thoroughly enjoyed this workshop and wished my husband was able to attend too. Some very simple yet often overlooked ideas and heeps of prompts and tips to improve and enhance a relationship. It was direct, honest and enlightening – left feeling uplifted, inspired and determined to do better!”

Susie C, Seaforth

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If you do not consciously take care of things they decline in value!! You maintain your house, your car, your computer, your health, and your teeth because if you don’t, they lose their value. If you do not look after your relationship it declines in value.

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